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how to be happy

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Blessed are you who are poor,
    for yours is the kingdom of God. 
 Blessed are you who hunger now,
    for you will be satisfied. 
Blessed are you who weep now,
    for you will laugh. 
 Blessed are you when men hate you,
    when they exclude you and insult you 
    and reject your name as evil,
        because of the Son of Man
 Luke 6:21-22 (NIV)

Christians can have funny responses to difficult circumstances.  Some like to point to them as proof that we are in God’s will because clearly the powers of evil are trying to stop us.  Others will suggest that some bit of sin in our hearts has kept God’s hand from reaching us.  Both of these trails of logic end in one place: an all-powerful God being over-powered by inferior beings.  

We have only to look at the book of Job to know that any power evil forces possess must first pass through the hand of God.

Jesus addressed the possibility of sin cursing us forever on the cross, and even taught that affliction is not the result of sin, but instead offers opportunity for God’s power to be displayed. 

We are left, then, with facing the frightening truth that our pain is part of God’s plan.  

C. S. Lewis was once criticized for “not caring for the Sermon on the Mount.” He replied, “As to ‘caring for’ the Sermon on the Mount, if ‘caring for’ here means ‘liking’ or enjoying, I suppose no one ‘cares for’ it. Who can like being knocked flat on his face by a sledge hammer? I can hardly imagine a more deadly spiritual condition than that of a man who can read that passage with tranquil pleasure.” [God in the Dock]


The blessings of the Sermon on the Mount are enveloped in desperate circumstances. Happiness is hidden in the horrible.


It is only when we are surrounded by suffering that this teaching of Jesus is a comfort.  It is so like the human heart to cling to prayer and God when we are desperate for salvation, and cling to our comfort when life seems tailor made for our happiness.


Building our awe for a God that is merciful and mighty in all seasons of life is the only remedy I have found.  Darker days may come, but today I must find gratitude for the light I have been given.  Arming my soul with His truth is essential.  Seeking answers to my deepest need for salvation while I am rested and joyful will prepare me for a time when I need answers to difficult questions.

And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.
Romans 8:28

This is a scripture that we only seem to think of when we stand toe to toe with trials and tribulation.  But I have begun to use it as a lens through which to see my whole life.  The joy of today is for my good.  The pain of yesterday is for my good. The dark horizon of tomorrow is for my good.  God has my life firmly placed in His hand.  I need not worry when my path seems rocky or beset by loss, nor should I fear losing the blessings I am currently enjoying.  

There is a purpose for all seasons, and a God who weaves them all together for His glory and my good.  
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Do you ever just want to open your arms wide to God and laugh at the way life is completely ridiculous? Carrie’s monthly newsletter provides a chance to grow spiritually through a blend of rich devotional teaching and cultural hot take. It’s solidly grounded in the belief that God is generally in a good mood, and the closer we get to him, the more complete our joy will be.